tough question
Question #3: Is there really such thing as right and wrong when it comes to friendships and relationships w ur loved ones?
Hmmm. Hard question isn't it? U'd think the world would be nice and be black and white but there is so much grey matter around. Some ppl perceive doing one thing as wrong, whereas someone else would be disappointed, but understand. Some ppl may believe that the action of someone's was justified, someone else may just see it as being plain selfish.
And is this inconsistency of views and beliefs and ideals that make connections btw ppl so difficult to make it uncomplicated? Some may call it a lack of communication that makes any relationship, be it friends or family wise, complicated - but there is just so much more to that isn't there?
A lack of communication, lack of understanding, lack of strength and lack of need all contribute to times of uncertainty. And funnily enough, so does fear of hurting someone, fear of saying the wrong thing - life would be so much easier if we all took a plunge and just told things like we honestly thought them - every little bit
But then, where's the tact huh? hehe and that's why all of this gets complicated - it just seems to get clearer to me each day. Our beliefs and own personal views on the world guide our everyday - including triggering off our own feelings on any situations that hits us.
And its probably this that makes me glad that i was born into a vietnamese family, growing up in australia, raised as a Catholic, go to a Catholic school, and yet attend Buddist functions, go to a Presbyterian school, learn australian ideals abt life, and learn abt the asian ideals abt life. All of these things have contributed to my beliefs, and there have been plenty of contradictions - but at least, this way, i've kept open minded.
The way i see it, if i'm able to live w and come to peace w all of these contradictions, then maybe i'm able to see why some ppl act in one certain way, why their thought process is different to mine. Somehow i think this would make things easier on most ppl, take the pressure off situations and help ppl move on to wherever they need to go. It's a nice thought. Hopefully i'm getting there.
And i hope the rest of the world is getting there too.
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